Well at least, how to feel good about every trade… well… at least there is a way to feel responsible for every trade.
it is impossible to profit in every trade, however if you are the one making the decision to trade then you are the one responsible.
You see, fear is what keeps us from taking action that is our own. We want easy answers and fool-proof methods for trading. This just doesn’t exist. We look to others to provide the answers so we have someone to blame.
I was trading today and one of my trades didn’t go as planned. I said to myself… that’s just my luck! When I realized what I said to myself I needed to change how I was thinking about my trading. If trading is about luck then I have to make my own Good Luck! You see luck is what happens when oppertunity meets preparation.
Bottom line… Take responsibility for every trading decision you make. You might find you pay more attention to each oppertunity as it appears.
Here’s a quote about fear:
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
'Market and Human' Psychology perspectives with tips on how to avoid common mistakes by 

Can you please advise me about the name and author of your most favourite book about currency trading.
Thanks,
Sam
Hi Sam.
Anything by the Tutles traders. Like: Way of the Turtles
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b_2_8?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=way+of+the+turtle&sprefix=way+of+t
Sam and all.
The point I am trying to make here is that if you take responsibility for your losses then you can also be responsible for your gains. This gives you power to improve and believe in yourself.